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Originally Posted by momo0007
Thanks for your advice.
Just maybe another silly question. I'm pretty closed to my parents as well and I really want to go and visit them at least once or twice a week, but my wife really dislikes that idea. She said her parents are overseas and she only gets to see them once a year, so why do we need to see my parents every week.
Am I really too "harshed"?
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Oh dear, here i was thinking it was a battle of the in-laws, but it seems that its a battle full stop?
It should not matter at all, how many times you see your parents, verses how many times she sees her parents?
Perhaps, it's more that she feels un-comfortable around your parents as to why she has commented as such?
You perhaps don't need to see them every week, but it should still be your choice, either on your own or with her.
If she is not comfortable around them yet, then offer to go on your own sometimes..
You should see your family when ever you want to.. It's your life there.
She needs to understand that if you have the chance, then why not, it's not your fault that hers are overseas..
We only live once and you never know when they will no longer be there and it's important to you, so could she respect that side of things.
That's just my opinion.
CW