I full understand sister problems. My older sister acts the same way and has rejected me for so many years. I did not realize she felt this way until the death of our parents, when she (being the only sibling) did not call me and let me know. Some other relative had to call me to let me know that my parents had passed. My sister lives next door to them and should have been the one to call. I tell you this was major, and I was very hurt by her behavior. I am in therapy working out some of these issues, because being rejected by my only living sibling is painful. It is nice to have a place to vent and let it all out. I have decided to try to let her behavior go. I have been told by my mother's dear friend that my older sister was jealous of me from the time my mother came home with me. Holiday, she does not call, If I call her, she will not call back, nor will she answer the telephone, and I know she has caller I.D. I sent her a b-day card not thank you or nothing. Finally, I am at the end of my rope, I have suffered long enough. I finally get the message, she does not want anything to do with me. I can not make her love me, nor make her heart feel something that it won't. But for my mental, spiritual, and physical health, I must let her go and live my life.