i am havi the same problem atleast you get sex i get it maybe once a week if that. he would rather watch porn. n he gets up for work n watches it thats the first thing he does. and then he waits for me to go to sleep n he watches it. i cant take it anymore. i really cant give u any advise i just wanted you to know that i am in the same boat as you. his has excuse not to have sex with me either and the biggest one is i am 2 tired but then yet he goes watchin porn. it hurt my feeling and i cry about it. i have refused to have sex with him when he wants it. he says he dont care how i feel abbout it that he is a grown man and he will do what he wants he never did it tho when we was dating it just these last few months. but just wanted to let yuou know that you are not alone.