Not wanting a child has already put your baby at a disadvantage. I got pregnant at a young age. I considered adoption but chose not to go that route. Life has not been easy. I grew up right along side my baby boy. I turned out fine but he...well, things didnt go well for him and not being mature and having the life experience, I couldnt help.

The father not being stable nor wanting children puts another strike against your baby's future.

Talk to your OB/GYN. They have amazing resources that many people do not know about and they dont bring up unless the patient does. You may be suprised as some of the things they can help you with.