In my opinion ultimately it's your decision.

And, if you can already see the "baby's face" and intuitely feel that you may not cope when your other halfs boyfriends sister has her baby, then i am going to say right here, you will live to regret it.

If it was clear cut, you wouldn't be think the above.

If it was clear cut, you wouldn't be worried more about whether he stays with you or doesn't.

That would not be the ulitmate question but is... This in my opinion means you of course are concerened for what you thought would happen and what has happened is different, but money or no money, you can bring a child into this world with so much love and happiness is abound.

I'm just saying, from reading what you are writing you will fall down when that baby is born and what if your boyfriend 5 years later says to you "you should have had it" or johnny would have looked like my nephew he'd be the same age, as he attaches himself to that child, as an Uncle...

Your decision i believe is based on the father of your child and the fear of losing him.

Let's just say you have a 50/50 either way of losing him which ever you way you go because that's a fact.

So instead, look inside yourself and be selfish and ask what you would feel, and how you feel...

The baby is a part of you, family, when it's born.. He is not blood and may not be around for ever..

How will you feel then?

Just pointing out some other facts and sides of things, not saying do or dont.



CW