I guess I exaggerated for the sake of giving someone else some 'cheerup' advice. i just identified with her frustration and I suppose I was saying what I wanted to hear myself, I don't know
The latter post is accurate. The way I described my ex bf in the first post is much more like my husband actually is.
This whole recent issue between us has been enlightening for me, I have had to confront lying to myself about his performance in bed, but don't get me wrong, it wasn't anything that would've broken us up, it's his insane fetish that could..
Whenever sex talk came up on a girls night out or something I always exaggerated my husbands ability and my own satisfaction and I don't know why, it's like I'm embarrassed for him or us.
It's why I joined this forum, to finally talk about it plainly as I'm still unable to talk to even my closest friend about it and there I was lying still in my first post.
Thanks for bringing it to my attention, it was kind of an eye opener has to how far I'd gone with the charade.

I hope you understand.