lot of guys when going bold early in life shave the whole lot off. It sounds like this is what you may have done. I think this can really work on the right person and be kind of cool, Van Diesel style. It sounds like you could probably pull this off as it sounds like you are quite a fit looking guy.

throw away the hat and make the boldness a statement. women love confidence in men. Emphasis what you have not what you don't. this is not going to be all women's thing but it shouldn't be a deal breaker for many.

Good Luck and have fun.

tt