I know I'm going to get the "why are you still w. her?!" response. It's still for my daughter. I sleep great because I sleep on the hide a bed. I do fine with most other things because I've grown indifferent. And I just work out at the gym and do things that I enjoy doing now. It's like having a bothersome room mate I guess? If I divorced her then my daughter wouldn't have her there too. It's not all bad, but I am pretty lonely in some ways. I took a ballroom dance class and learned to do a great waltz, swing, and quickstep. (she doesn't dance- I've offered tried etc.) That kind of helped me feel appreciated by women. I seriously committed myself to create demand. I loved having four girls that might be out of my league fight over who got to dance w. me! Ka- zahh! I did keep my standards too. I set ground rules to not be alone w. them. It was good.