my heart goes out to you at this time.... you must be very confused... your man is certainly sending you mixed singles.... infact reading parts of your conscript has confused me.... as in his behaviour... in actual fact ld say he s trying to take the blame off himself and push it on to you in a round about kinda way.... the basement situation has me thinking.... online games you say.... well thats what he would have told you.... to be honest the online game he was playing would be in a chat room and on msn... lm just guessing but ld say he has been having a great time.... in this situation alot of pllz get caught up in the surreal world of the net and become like their alter ego...lt could explain his change in behaviour.... l ve actually had a friend go through much the same with her man...he did leave her for his cyber net friend... in reality found this new woman not what he assumed her to be...now he and wife are back together ....mind you he is not aloud anywhere near the pc.... so in other words trust has gone as you would expect.. l wish you well at this time... stay strong