Personally? Not at all.

To me, cheating is physical contact with the intent to go all the way whilst in a relationship.

I think "boys" should be able to be "boys" and in an honest relationship, the trust is there, consequently, like we may let our hair down and go out with the girls, have a drink, get chatted up, and tell our S/O and laugh, same should apply with the male species.

CW