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Originally Posted by talk time
I think it is time to explore and experiment a little.
You obviously feel there is something missing and want to experience an orgasm with him. It might be a good starting point to explore your own body, If you grew up thinking women were non sexual you may have missed out on doing this, I'm only guessing, which is how young teens start to build their sexual desire and know what they like.
Try some new things with him too. Get him to give you oral sex. If you haven't experienced this before I would be surprised if it doesn't get you feeling more sexual. You are going to have to try and let go of your thoughts of being non sexual though. You can do this maybe by looking at visual sexual stimula, magazines, porn movies etc. you may be saying ew! but just try it.
Sometimes dressing sexy can get you in the mood.
It sounds like your husband wants to take you 'there' , but may not be that experienced himself. You can learn about what makes your body tick together. You can look at it as being frustrating, and I'm sure it is in a way, but try to see it as a new journey and adventure you are going on together.
Good luck and have fun with it.
tt
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yes for the last few yrs we have tried all this stuff without any effect at all for me, yes hes done the oral thing, best way to put me to sleep very quickly is al i can say about that, i couldnt even tell you what it is that he does when down there, i really dont know, i cant feel much of anything particularly, plus the only reason that he now does that is because its in the books that we bought and it states in there that is what he should be doing.