What about sex toys. Focus them on your cliteris for best result.

If that doesn't work, I'm not sure what will?

It sounds like the issue is partly psychological and possibly a lack of sensation in that area. would you feel comfortable consulting a Dr?

you sound very discouraged but please don't give up. You came to this sight for answers and hopefully someone can give you the ones you are looking for.

Many women find it difficult to orgasm durring straight sex, it can be the sexual play that is more rewarding. explore your own body to see if anything feels better than others. The cliteris would be a good place to start.

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