Wow...I didnt' realize that this was happening to so many other women...I am dating a younger man than me. I recently discovered that he has been multi texting a girl at his work...55 times in one day...49 another...I only found out because I had to activate his new cell phone on my computer while he was at work. Lo and behold...what is this?!!? I ran straight to his work and asked who it was...having an idea myself I looked it up and my suspicions were correct. You see everytime I talk about this, I convince myself that staying with him was wrong...I mean he lied about her age, her hair color, who she acutally was. I textd her myself and asked her very nicely to leave my boyfriend alone...her response? F*#k off you cougar...you are a crazy ! All we did was talk about our different backgrounds! Anyhow, there is no doubt the man loves me, but now I feel like a mother watching his every move...I hate not trusting him...having to check his texts daily, and I also have a keylogger (a wonderful little invention by the way). But I dearly love him...to absolute death...