The funny thing is how some think that it was wrong but still ok. Just forgive and forget because supposedly there was nothing sexual. But really if it isn't cheating why the need to lie or cover up? And there was opportunity for it to be sexual, you ask but would they really tell the truth when for so long they lied over who they actually were in the first place. They know how much they have to lose once they are caught but didn't care while they were in it.
I even asked my husband what changed between all that time when you felt the need to talk to her for hours and send texts? And during her visits being able to see her because I trusted he had given the truth. He said nothing has changed but he realizes that I am what he wants and where he wants to be. Pretty hard to believe huh? If nothing changed nothing was wrong in the first place so why did you do it? That is what men do? Right I think that is the lamest excuse ever made and you can bet it was started by a man. We have the same temptations all the time. We are approached all the time, we have old boyfriends who would welcome. But iit is only a guy thing to act on them? They can't help it? Yeah right.
The only thing that changed is you got caught. Just like the song, "don't tell me your sorry cause your not, your just sorry you got caught" you had no problem during the situation and it would still be going on if not!!!