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whilhelmready everyone?
anon?
brace yourself:
i agree.
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Oh my, my jaw fell open? lol.
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lovemyself1remember that moonshadow48 was "spying" on her husband because she had red flags! she wasnt doing it cuz she was bored. i believe in being a good detective and protecting yourself. if there is some strange behavior, then check it out, even if it just reassures you that there is nothing going on.
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I do agree that people "deserve respect, their own space" and in a committed relationship, there should be trust, or else un-commit, simple.
But I also find it hard not to agree with the above poster, but only in as much as early stages of a relationship/romance..
Surely, if you have been married for years you know a "red flag" and you know the answer, ask, get lied to, feel it, make your decision...
Firstly, okay so shoot me, we are women and we have intuition.
Secondly, shoot me twice, I managed an Investigation Firm for 4 years, so i have a different intuition that shows "reg flags", it's whether you want to see them or not and if you do, then how can you just "ask" the question, your not going to get an honest answer if the red flag is actually "real"..
You have to play detective... sometimes for your own safety.... if in a "new" relationship until you can build that trust, if things just aren't adding up.
There, i am sorry, i would and will and maybe have, definately checked a few things out...
Committed ones? As, i said, you should know, if you communicate and therefore, "know the person", you should be able to work out if something is different.
CW