So how has it been from here?

Did you find out more about this woman? Her daughter?

This is hard for you i know, a long time together, very long time.

If she has been married, divorced that may times, maybe she came on to him a couple of years ago, maybe he is wanting something he is missing now?

She sounds like the last person any man would want to connect with and "Mother's Daughter"..

I think the guys didn't read the beginning till the end, rather should or should you not check...

I think your following "intuition" where i said, you "choose to see it or not",

So, you chosing to see it but he can stay?

Fear of all those years wasted?

Why not tell him everything you know if you haven't and what YOU want and see his reply?

CW