hi there i am new to all this sort of thing, and if i have posted this in the wrong place then i do apologise.

i been with my feller for over 12 month the phsical side of things only just taken off about 6 weeks ago., he a lovely sensitive caring loving person. and he is having problems with erections, i love him despartly, and i do not know what to say to him, i just tell him the truth which is that if we never made love properly i still love him and want to be with him, it that simple, but practically he needs to feel good about himself and this is making him worry, he feels a failure thinks he letting me down, and what he lacks there makes up in other departments, he worrys far to much about it i think that is one prob and i tell him to relax and not to think about it, to just enjoy each other as best we can, he can get one one that will last and other times it just goes soft half way through,sometime no matter what i do he dont respond, and of couse i wonder if it me am i turning him on, he says so but i need to know what else i can try what i can do.

he is on medication for emphasemia, so he having enough to worry about as it is, i really dont want him to worry at all, but we think this may have a bearing on it he is gonna to go see his doctor about the meds, but is there anything i can do or say that will help.

i mean telling him it dont matter cos no matter what i love him aint really the way, it is true but he needs to feel good about himself too and that all i want for him..