What i guess sticks out in my mind is this...

When you are on top (confused over the kissing) but I'll give it a go, you have an orgasm and he won't kiss you.

When you are on the bottom, he will kiss you and you don't have an orgasm.

So, he may not understand that it is simply "position" for you that allows you to get where you want to get.

That is my favourite position it seems...

And, i think he is thinking that when he kisses you, makes love to you it doesn't happen and he feels inadequate, and now says i don't want sex.

He feels he is not doing it right or good enough.

What he needs to understand is that that is not a FACT.

We all as women have positions whereby it effects us the most and consequently you perhaps need to explain that to him that it is not the fact that you find your way and orgasm, rather, HE reaches your spot if you are on top, in the fashion that you can orgasm.

You also therefore need to experiment more in different positions, him raising you up for instance is similar to you being on top, where feeling it more goes, doggy style etc.

It is all a learning curve, when new and your new to it, and he's new to you.

Explain that to him as i think he is just feeling in-secure based on your reply on your other thread.

And based on 6 months, together it's all new and he was your first.

Everything takes time when your both new as bodies entwining as one, let alone, you being new to sex as well and he may not have had many either, so it's all new to be explored together as a couple.

CW