Thanks guys

Some really great ideas here. I am picking him up from the airport so may go under wearless and pass him my underwear as we got in the car. I did this once when we went out for dinner at a very good restaurant and told him when the main meal was just about to arrive, It drove him nuts and we didn't make it to the dessert, well in the restaurant anyway lol.

I also love the ideas of the pogressively naked polaroids, may save this one when he comes home from a day at golf. Also the allised afair thing will drive him wild. We are going to a holiday down south so I could go to the bar by myself and role play and let him pick me up and take me back to the hotel.

We haven't really role played yet but just after we met we went to a naughty school girls party and this seemed to really do it for him so I think this would be a good place to start.

As for anything he has hinted at but we have not done together yet, he has never tried anal sex and is very excited by the idea. I have tried this in past relationships and he really wants to do it but is very nervous. I guess he is a 46 yr old anal virgin. We have made baby steps towards it digitally and toys on each other but he seems nervous to take the plunge, so to speak. when we moved in together, about 8 mth ago, I was packing up the rest of his house, as he was away working, and stumbled upon his porn collection which was almost entirely about anal.

We have talked about doing it many times and I would love to help him explore this fantasy but he seems scared, not sure if it is because he knows I have done it before and he is feeling inexperienced.

Any tips on how to get him in the right mood? I thought about putting on some of his porn for us to watch together. He is almost ten years older than me but less sexually experienced and a bit English/conservative.

I also thought about on the way home from a night out slipping my panties off while he is driving. we have just bought a new luxery car though and I wouldn't want to have to explain a crash under those circumstances to the insurance company lol.

Thanks for your tips so far, keep them comming.

tt