when a women is on top guys, I have found, like it when you are ridding them like a cow girl, not bent over kissing them possition but bouncing up and down on top of them.

If you don't like this do it another way. Get all the kisses and intimacy you want.

I don't know why he doesn't want sex any more. Speak to him about it and what you like and what he likes. Maybe you can have a mix of both so you are both happy.

Don't feel discouraged it should be an exciting learning experience for both of you.

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