dont worry i have the same problem alough im only 15 it still worrys me i am ready but it just wont go in i have tried everything but it just doesnt work my friends keep telling me to get lube or something like that and to just relax because the muscles in your vagina arent letting him in i no its not advice but i didnt want u to feel like you are the onli 1 with the problem if i do get any advice i will tell you