I watched a programme on 'embarrasing bodies' and a lady on that had larger inner lips than her outer lips, she had surgery, and it was apparently a simple operation.

However, many women have inner lips of their labia that protrude more so than the outer and dont think twice about it.

It is a personal choice, and seeing that your husband is 'disgusted' by them, i assume its affecting you. Maybe you should tell him that his penis is disgusting and see how that makes him feel.....