You know you need to end it. Let me tell you just how bad these things can get...

My husband cheated on me a few times... and when I found out I left him. The problem was I was a month pregnant with our second child. I was stressed and depressed from finding out that the man I had vowed to spend the rest of my life with, to be faithful to and to love had cheated on me. He forgot about me so quickly and was able to sleep with other women. I felt stoopid, hurt and betrayed.

I lost my baby boy at four months of pregnancy. I had to birth the baby naturally, going through all the labour pains and never getting to hold my infant, never getting to see him laugh, to hug or kiss him... I blamed my husband... and I blame his mistress because she knew about me.

It is because of a woman just like you that I lost my baby boy....

Think about that, and if you decide to keep seeing him - and yes, you can 'help it'.