i had this with my husband when we met it was great but slowly it turned to hating sex completely
i hated being close and i hated him touching me. but i can pin point how it all happened he hated my daughter was abusive with her physically, and nothing i could do would make us the happy family i wanted, slowy and surely the abuse and the bulling to my self turned to hating him and everything to do with him..

but i guess this is a major different story cos i do like sex i met another guy two years after i left my husband.

it not good for either party when sex becomes a big big issue, i had to leave sometimes i think you have to reevalueate what you have...

if you can pin point the problem to how you ended up this way you may be able to take steps to put it right, in my case abuse it cannot be put right lots of damage was done. but if we had just lost our way feelings had been lost due to busy life styles or what ever, sometimes if you think back to what turned us on in the first place what we liked about this person, re inact the first meeting i heard this can sometimes remind us of what we once had.

but like i say it a case of looking deeply into whats happening. there a lot to this story i feel so i can only comment on what i have wether it relevant or not, i hope you sort this out good luck