If you want a hot relationship and a good marriage my best advice would be to learn to wake up and make love...Once you have started this venture, you just may find, as I have, that it is the most erotic love making you can do...You will find that your man is more willing and his erection is strong....He is refreshed in the morning from a sound sleep and more of a man then he will be the rest of the day..This is why so many men wake up during the night and want their woman....This alone is how I turned my husband around and off Viagra...Just spooning to start and gradually the insertion of the male sexual organ into me...What started as playful sex turned into mind boggling sex and a game that I started, knowing what I was trying to do, became a sexual perfection as he turned into my stud all over again...He never knew what I was doing all these mornings...I praised him and he reacted like the man he has always been but was again awaken to woman.....He never knew how I was deliberately teasing him and this surprise became a sexual game that has stayed with us....

Even though you are not trying to awaken your young husband, this experiment that I perfected, has helped many women bring their lover back to good sexual performance...The secret is not telling a man what you are trying to do...Never put pressure on him and watch his pride as it grows....

Just my thoughts...xx Caroline