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Originally Posted by Tim4family
I know you were specific with regards to female feedback and hope you do not mind my comment.
My situation is very much the same as you describe and our window of opportunity (intimate encounters) seem to always vaporize before our eyes. Having a 16 month old and a 4 year old make for a busy day and night and my wife is understandably drained both emotionally and physically by days end.
We have started to be more proactive in scheduling sitters and dropping kids off at grandmas. This has been wonderful as it is something we both eagerly look forward to. The excitement building up to the encounter also makes it sooo good. Although the spontanous encounters are not as frequent, the idea that both of us are eager and commited to make the other person a priority has many bennefits to a healthier and fun relationship.
And I feel your pain with regards to going to sleep horney and wanting. It is tough, but remember Kids get older and our couple time will slowly come back. Best of luck.
Tim4family
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Tim: My husband worked rotating shifts when our family was young, so this always gave us the time to stay lovers....BUT many couples haven't got an option such as you talk about and so many women along these lines get into some of the worst sexual problems that they will ever have.....Especially the ones that are fighting for their own sexuality to start........Not having all this wonderful sex that they should have and keep up and letting it go....................They soon forget to remember what they should have.....Orgasms become a thing of the past..........They struggle sexually to know themselves.............Sex becomes a chore instead of a pleasure..............And a wonderful love life goes to hel*.....
C