The girl should be thankful that *TWO* guys would be willing to go with her...out of all my dances I havn't been asked ONCE. My senior Prom is this yr..and even tho it's december I'm already freakin' about WHO I AM gonna ask. I've asked every guy...thankfully never been turned down...but the girl needs to get over her fears and ask the guy...she might regreat it. If he says no....then say yes to the other guy. Take chances, and learn from them. Last homecoming I asked a guy who I thought wouldn't go with me...he thought about backing down from his word...but he went....and no, I don't regreat it...