12-28-2006, 09:39 AM
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I can tell you...
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What you have done is romanticed an extremely
unpleasant interlude. By elevating this guy to some
import you hide the fact that you were, as you name
suggests, used.
He played a game, he won.
Now you have to move on.
What I found works is a psychological distraction.
Sort of a Pavlovian training...
Every time you think of this guy you are to look at
something. Give your self a focus...and tell your
self: "When I look at (whatever) I will remember
how it feels to be used by this guy"
Make it clear to yourself, write it down...
you were nothing but an easy screw.
If you eventually get through to your sub-conscious
so that as soon as you think of him you look at
your 'distractor' and think of how he used you,
eventually you teach your id that it is unpleasant
to think of thim.
It works.
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