My SO massages my prostate. Much info on net on where to find it. Stick your finger in and rub on the area where his sack (scrotum) attaches to his body.
Wear gloves. Cheap and available in any pharmacy or DIY shop.
Use lub.
When my SO does it to me, I normally have to use our "safe word"to make her stop eventually. Very intense. Very.
But like many activities it must be done with consenting couple with lots of trust and the guy must be willing to give "navigation"instructions" - just like searching for a woman's G-spot. The doer is blind, the receiver needs to give navigation instructions. This can be hard to do until you develop the trust and ability to communicate openly.
When searching for her G-spot, at first she did not feel comfortable verbalising directions. So, what I did is asked her to take hold of index finger of my other hand. When I reached a spot that felt good, she was to squeeze my finger. This worked. she could give me "feedback" but did not have to speak. After a while we got past that and can now use words.
It sure is fun to explore new things with the right partner. And be still never tire of the "conventional" things either. Sort of like dining. Bacon and eggs make a great meal, but sometimes, eggs Benedict are great too.
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