hmmmm how do i put this.... you are being easy prey. The above posts are all correct if you stop being his easy peice he will move on. He is spineless and a chump. So stop being part of the problem and be part of the solution. I'm sure you are pretty enough to find your own man that has much more to offer you then a kiss and a cuddle here and there.

If you don't want a serious relationship yourself then there are plenty of NSA (No Strings Attached) offers on the internet everyday go hook up with one of those. If the risk of getting caught is what's turning you on get a death defeying hobbie to get your kicks

Stop making his wife and yourself look like a fool.