Yea, that's gotta be the most difficult part--when one partner isnt' comfortable w/ some of the things that other partner wants. In this situation--there's gotta be some sort of compromise--you should ALWAYS make sure to listen to what your partner would want. My suggestion would be to listen first, and then decide with which things you are most comfrtobale w/.

What do others think about this situation??

Good Luck!!