This is one of the reasons I don't think it is worth spying on someone. Stains in the underwear? Yes, might be due to sex, or maybe he watches dirty movies, or maybe he just jerks off at the office restroom when he gets horny (wouldn't want to get caught by the boss, but not bad in the way cheating is).
If you look you will keep looking until you find something - real on not. Might as well just give up and save yourself the pain. At the point where you have lost so much trust that you need to spy, I think the relationship is over.
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Originally Posted by Wiltered flower
Confused , I know this sounds gross.But I have been going through this way to long and have learnt a few tips from a P.I. What he suggested to me is keep a diary about his underwear..LOL . He told me to try and see what color underwear he is wearing..the darker the color..the better . Hold of sex while he is wearing those underwear.When he takes them off to be washed.Check for a starchy kind of stain on his underwear.Because you have not had sex with him..you will know that the semen stains are not because of you.There is a kit you can buy called Checkmate that can test to see if any stains are actually semen.If it comes back positive he is BUSTED !!! Also, make sure the underwear has been washed before he puts them on.
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