So true! I know that you know this is my case. I would have never thought that I would have feelings for someone else while being married. I have not cheated but some would call it an emotional affair since I am so close to my best friend that I ended up falling in love with him because he liked to spend time with me and do the things that I like and really listens and pays attention. All of the things that most husbands do not give to their wives.