01-19-2007, 07:48 PM
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I have three.
The first, the father made dependent on him to
the extent he cried for his father exclusively.
When his father carried on with his life, the child
felt rejected although he was surrounded by family.
I avoided this with my second, so that he was
virtually comfortable with anyone, and my third
is the perfect example of a cheerful outgoing
happy child, because I enforced the 'open'
relationship so that she would not feel dependent
soley on me or her father.
The first married and divorced and seems to
have a trust problem
The second married, made me a grandmother,
seems very well balanced.
The third is getting married, and her confidence
is enviable.
Making a child too dependent on one person
turns out badly. In Sanaii's case, it is her.
She must wean the child from her, no matter
the crying, the reluctance, eight month old
children...even new borns are usually 'friendly'.
Eight months is old enough for the child not
to be so insecure.
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