01-22-2007, 09:50 AM
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Every action that effects other people has to be
scientifically examined.
Clearly you always had feelings for your best
friend, and these shouldn't change. The fact
there is an innocent girlfriend who will be
devastated by her boyfriend's unfaithfulness
has to be considered part of the circle, as
she would be where you were when you
found out.
As no one is married here, and the possibility
of these relationships falling apart is live, there
Mis no reason to treat them as permanent.
But the most important thing...
if people will only be hurt by your admissions,
why say anything?
Why hurt her? Why expose her boyfriend
when what happened might have been more
your provocation than anything else.
This is your best friend. You come to lean
on him. He is there for you. Somehow the
relationship was turned from friend to lover...
you caused it. You certainly can't blame
him.
Usually, revenge adultery is with strangers.
A male you don't care about, so as not
to complicate a situation.
In the case of inshock, let time pass...see
what the dynamics are. Your boyfriend
might go off again...your best friend's girlfriend
might leave for some totally unrelated reason.
This is life, not a soap opera.
Certain secrets go to the grave.
This is one of them.
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