Thread: Why Adultery?
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Old 01-22-2007, 01:10 PM
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Thanks kaylar. Things are delicate with my friend but ok. We talked about it and the various implications and I think we are on track to revert to our old friendship.

The hardest part of this struggle has become the mental aspect. At times I am literally overwhelmed with guilt and confusion. I am finding it extraordinarily difficult to focus on my school work. I don't know what to do about it.

I read something in one of your post about learning to control the Id. What would you suggest in this case? I do not want to alienate my friend. I am satisfied that we will never tell a soul. So all that remains is letting go of my guilt and making sure it never happens again. I want my piece of mind back but I do not want to forget the importance of this lesson.

I guess my general question is: what thoughts should I reinforce to move past all this and keep my Id in check?
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