Are there other women having the same problems? I am a 40 year old Mother of a 5 year old. I've been married for 6 years. Unfortunately, I am Bipolar. Although my husband does his own reserach, it's still very frustrating. I have NO sex drive. I mean absolutely NONE! This has been an ongoing problem for many years because of all the medication I take to regulate the chemical imbalance. I take Wellbutrin, Zoloft, Depakote, and several other meds that are necessary because of a back injury. Our marriage has always been good. That is until last April 7th. Our home and everything we owned were destroyed due to a tornado. We lost everything. We are in an apartment while we rebuilt our home, but if things don't change it's only going to be a house. We hardly ever fought before this storm. Now, my husband and I cannot get through 1 day without fighting. We had to jump through hooks and pull teeth to get what was rightfully ours so the construction of our home has been one problem after another. Our daughter now had Post Tramatic Anxiety issues and has been seeing a counselor and has to take medication which has taken quite a toll as well. We are dealing with behavioral issues and we don't see eye to eye on disipline. Anyway....because of all that's happened, the problem in the bedroom has come to a head. I HATE sex. I don't want to even be in the same room with him some days. much less, make love with him. It's about to destroy our marriage. It's a constant struggle and we fight about it on a daily basis. I'm seeing a doctor trying to get medical advice, but wanted to see if any of you had any suggestions or tools that I can use to perhaps help in the bedroom. I've gone to the extent of buying him toys/etc. to satify himself. I just don't care. And as far as for myself, I could care less if I ever have sex again. HELP! Has anyone bought items that have helped you with your low sex drive? I'm willing to try just about anything!!!!