I would have to disagree Kaylar. Sorry but I think this is healthy. I think the mommy is doing something right in order for that baby to want her all the time. So what if that baby is dependent on her. ALL babies depend on someone right? I mean why is this a bad thing? I can see why your husband would want some attention. So include daddy in on play time, have daddy join you for baithing time, and bed time. If daddy wants to be closer with baby, then daddy needs to be with mommy when she does all the important stuff baby needs. That's just my oppinion. I was attached to my mother and now I can't stand her and my father pretty much has nothing to do with me early on in life and now we are closer than ever. I am going to Nursing school which I am fixing to get my Bachelor's, I am happily married to the same man, I am preparing for my first child, and I am having a blast looking at homes to buy. I didn't turn out to bad. I can understand where Kaylar is coming from. Everyone has a different oppinion on the matter but you know your child best. Take the advice and handle it as you see fit. Have a great day darling. Hope all works out!