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Old 11-18-2008, 07:25 AM   #15
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I don't want her past to be the reason things don't work out and the reason for my inquiry is that I don't understand the mental side of this dilema. Will this go away eventually or not? I am conservative... But don't you wish more guys were like me? I guess I could become as sex crazed and inconsiderate as the rest. Anyways if anyone has advice pertaining to my qoustion and not my life style please, I would really appreciate it
Her past wouldn't be the reason it doesn't work. You obsessing about it would. I never really understood or understand why people feel the need to know how many partners their partners have had. Seems to me a person would only need to know a couple of things. One, your not getting with a virgin and two, the nonvirgin is disease free. The rest really is irrelevent to current relationship.

You already say you think about it to the point it makes you sick. It will only get worse.

and for the record, conservative is ok but there can be such a thing as to conservative. Not being conservative does not mean sex crazed and inconsiderate either.
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