Ok, so, me and my fiance have been together now for almost 7 years, we just had a baby 15 months ago. and about 2 months before i was due for labor, he had gotten fired from his job, and for a while he'd use the excuse i wanna see my baby grow up for a bit before i go back to work and so i said that's fine for a month or two, then he started to say well your getting maturity pay/leave so why cant i use this time ( the year of maternity time) to relax and enjoy with baby, and he would say i will get a job as soon as you go back to work, i went back to work 4 months after i had him just for a day a week for extra cash, and so i've been back to work full time now for 5 months and hes now saying i don't think its possible for two people to work and raise a child. and he says he needs this time off of work so he can work on home made short films so he can become famous and all that . but mean while I'm paying all his bills, rent and feeding him, taking on all the responsibilities of work and home because hes not to good with house hold chores. i don't even think hes done more then 5 loads of laundry in the whole time we've been together, that's just an example of one thing.
mean while i feel as though I'm being taken advantage of and hes not going to change.
i don't know if its the stress or if its the fact that his laziness is making him more unattractive but i don't have a desire for sex with him any more, and hes not a passionate person so i don't feel like im wanted or desired by him. it feels like wam bam thank ya mam kinda sex life now. is the whole sex part normal for two people of a 7 year relationship. also are there any other women who take on the finantial responsibilities all by them selves?
