if you are interested this book could help you out tramendously I think. I am a Passion Consultant and I even learned a lot from it. You can find it online at amazon or walmart.com has it at a great price right now too. It is called Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex. It is not all about sex though it talks about reconnecting with your partner and many other things. Please let me know if you decide to check it out. I hope this helps. Have a great day.
Pam