02-24-2007, 02:54 PM
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Lil never realised that Tim was using her. She loved
her life, Cal who provided the money and status, Tim
who provided the fun and frolic.
She never considered that her passion for Tim
would turn what should have been a casual
affair into a broken heart.
Nor the problem of not being able to 'mourn'.
When one is the victim of adultery, the feeling
that something 'died' is very real. Just as if
a husband died, taking away the comfort, the
partnership, leaving you with memories, so to
when he is unfaithful, for he turns those memories
into fraud.
One can 'mourn' when it is a husband who has
been unfaithful to you, but when your lover is
unfaithful to you...it puts you into an almost
schzophrenic flurry.
You can't let your husband know, must play
the pleasant wife so that he doesn't start
to pry, but feel so hurt inside.
Being unfaithful is always problematic.
In cases as Lil's the idea of divorce to marry
the lover is not in play.
Hence falling in love with the lover is as much
a mistake as being unfaithful.
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