Married women, single women with many partners, single women with NO partners that don't have sex at all STILL get pap tests every year. Welcome to the joys of being a female. The test doesn't only check for diseases, and your bf that 'says he got tested' did you go with him? did you sit in the office when they told him his results? Did you spend every waking moment with him from the time he had the test to when you actually had sex? If the answer is no to any of those questions, you can't be 100% certain WHAT he has or does not have.
Trust is important in a relationship, but when you are talking about your health, your future and your life you have to take protecting those seriously enough to get regular exams. The test takes minutes, you are on and off the table so fast you will feel silly for worrying about it.
You are so young to be having sex, the fact that you are being so immature as to say 'nya nya nana you can['t make me" makes you sound like a small child refusing to eat her veggies. Think about that, and think about you have the rest of your adult life to put it at risk as you choose. Right now you are under your moms care, a minor and she's doing what is best for you.
Sorry if that sounds mean but you are blaming everyone around you for taking this test, sex comes with responsability and if you keep having it, you may end up having to get even more invasive tests if you get pregnant or catch a disease. Remember just a few years ago when things were more carefree and you were not worried about std tests, papsmears birth control and all that... wasn't life so much more simple? Why not go back to that and save sex for when you are old enough to handle all that stuff. If your boyfriend loves you, or even values you as a person.. he will wait.
Don't think that just because you had sex once that you might as well keep doing it, its too late etc.. Don't think that way. You can reclaim your body any time you want to and keep it for yourself.
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