i certainly agree with little, I myself have had a FAR from perfect mother as well, and I know what its like to be on the other end but you have certainly done everything that you can to try to make amends with your daughter but it sounds like she is being a brat about it all, and that's not fair to you at all. It sounds like she still has a lot of growing up to do, but it has nothing to do with you. She has made her choices to have an abusive relationship to get married and things like that its all her. As for trying to have a good relationship with your daughter its possible but she has to give up on blaming you for everything that has happened. Things have been out of your control and yes you also had some control over what had happened, but you have tried to make amends. I think that your daughter should go see a counselor and maybe you two can work things out.
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