i think your husband is a bit niave if he thinks your "lifestyle" wont change after having children, but other than that i agree with chandlers wish, its great to work even part time, the children dont suffer but enjoy being with other people and so do you. theres nothing wrong with that. maybe you could work at a day care centre and take baby with you - well thats just one suggestion. you still get to talk to your adult co-workers, but keep an eye on baby. i worked when my daughter was small, firstly in our family business from the time she was two weeks old, but i could take her to work with me. then i went back to part time (20 hours a week) when she was a year old. she loved the lady that took care of her and i really enjoyed working. now she is 11 and we couldnt be closer and more loving. but thats just my experience, perhaps other people have some bad stories.
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