I think it depends on your relationship and the guy. I mean there are different types of guys that frequent strip clubs. The lonely man that is looking for some attention from a beautiful woman who wouldnt otherwise give him the time of day. The guys that just go with friends to hoot and hollar and get drunk and have fun.
The allure of a strip club, I can understand. Half/fully naked women running around clamoring for their attention, throwing themselves at them. They literally can sit and reject beautiful woman after beautiful woman if they want. For Joe average, wow what a high, an expensive one at that.
Some of those backroom lapdances, even at fancy clubs can get pretty extreme and I don't know about you but if my man is having his erection grinded on to satisfaction, I'd think of it as cheating. But everyone has a different place they draw the line. I think If I was older and my husband of 20 years wanted a young hot thing to give him some attention I wouldn't care at all. I'd even give him a 20. I think that having an attractive young husband, boyfriend etc it would feel a little different having him frequent those establishments. It's a job for strippers, indeed. But they are human and not immune to attraction.
"Men will be Men" is such a load of really. But a guy just going with some friends to relax and be "man", fine. I don't think I'd mind it too much. But if he was going frequently, spending lots of cash and even going alone I'd begin to worry.
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