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**torn2pieces** · 02-06-2009, 09:04 AM

As far as more info. He does not frequent them, I am almost positive he has only been once since we have been together (2 years). He went on superbowl night, something they did after the game. I asked if he got a lap dance he said no cause it was $30. He did not inform me about the strip club but instead the ticket fell out of his pocket as I was picking up laundry.

Over a year ago he asked me if I would mind him going to a strip club with some friends after work (I was at work) and I said I didn't care but he could tell in my voice I did care so he didn't go and then he text his friend "I should grow some balls" and he accidentally sent it to me also so then I text back and sarcastically said "ya you should", then because of my smart remark he decided he was going to go anyway, but didn't go...the last time he mentioned going to one, it go difficult between us two. So when I asked him why he lied, he said casue the last time he mentioned it it got all complicated. He apologized for lying.

Thank you for your responses, it has helped a great deal. As a matter of fact, I am going to let this go off of my mind. I hear what every one is saying.

I come here for advice for some of the simplest things or ways your are supposed to handle yourself in a relationship because I was never taught as a child growing up. Here I am 27 and want to have a successful relationship on to marriage.

02-06-2009, 09:04 AM	#5
torn2pieces VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Kansas City, MO Posts: 62	More Info As far as more info. He does not frequent them, I am almost positive he has only been once since we have been together (2 years). He went on superbowl night, something they did after the game. I asked if he got a lap dance he said no cause it was $30. He did not inform me about the strip club but instead the ticket fell out of his pocket as I was picking up laundry. Over a year ago he asked me if I would mind him going to a strip club with some friends after work (I was at work) and I said I didn't care but he could tell in my voice I did care so he didn't go and then he text his friend "I should grow some balls" and he accidentally sent it to me also so then I text back and sarcastically said "ya you should", then because of my smart remark he decided he was going to go anyway, but didn't go...the last time he mentioned going to one, it go difficult between us two. So when I asked him why he lied, he said casue the last time he mentioned it it got all complicated. He apologized for lying. Thank you for your responses, it has helped a great deal. As a matter of fact, I am going to let this go off of my mind. I hear what every one is saying. I come here for advice for some of the simplest things or ways your are supposed to handle yourself in a relationship because I was never taught as a child growing up. Here I am 27 and want to have a successful relationship on to marriage.