Originally Posted by 2morrow

Its one thing to watch strippers, but its a totally different thing to have the lap dance and have them squirm all over the S O. That is a form of cheating. I wouldn't like it. I think there has to be some ground rules laid out in situations like that. For instance, we had agreed that on the occasion that he did go with his buddies, it would be a few drinks and enjoy the view. But that was it, no touchy !! As for my SO, he didn't want me to look at another mans privates, He hated the thought of it. . I was never interested in going to see the male stripper anyhow, so I was ok with that.

I think that as a couple you have to set rules, that you are both comfortable with, and each of you, has to abide by them.