i'm also torn about this situation. i believe in trust totally....but what would bug me is if he gets turned on. i want to be the one in his life that turns him on...not some stripper that takes her clothes off for a living!! i am all for going to one with him..even him at the stage is fine with me..where i can see whats going on! i dont like the idea of a private lap dance. eventhough i trust him...i dont trust her. you know men...once the hormones go theres no turning back...
definately come to an agreement on what both of you are comfortable with. he should also be considerate of your feelings about it.
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