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nsharonew · 02-17-2009, 06:53 PM

I used to have a problem with my ex-husband going to a strip club and made him PROMISE not to go to any more.

I got my cell phone bill and found 17 pages of phone calls starting at 8 at night and ending at 8 in the morning, so I googled some of the numbers (nasty habit to break, FYI) and found they were escort services.

When I confronted him about cheating he said he had only ordered a stripper (yea, sure, a grown man calls a woman to his hotel room at 2 in the morning to watch her take off her clothes...whatever) so I said "the calls started at 8:00 at night, the strip clubs were still open" and then...."But you made me promise not to go to the strip club anymore..."

Needless to say, he is no longer my, nor anyone elses husband.

Moral of the story...there are worse things. They show T&A on cable now, and guys will likely always look, and I think the advice to go with him is brilliant! The ladies, they aren't like they are in the movies...they are normal woman with normal flaws like back acne and stretch marks...seriously....so if you go with him, you can see how "normal" they really are, it might help you to overcome this.

Good luck!

02-17-2009, 06:53 PM	#14
nsharonew Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 24	I used to have a problem with my ex-husband going to a strip club and made him PROMISE not to go to any more. I got my cell phone bill and found 17 pages of phone calls starting at 8 at night and ending at 8 in the morning, so I googled some of the numbers (nasty habit to break, FYI) and found they were escort services. When I confronted him about cheating he said he had only ordered a stripper (yea, sure, a grown man calls a woman to his hotel room at 2 in the morning to watch her take off her clothes...whatever) so I said "the calls started at 8:00 at night, the strip clubs were still open" and then...."But you made me promise not to go to the strip club anymore..." Needless to say, he is no longer my, nor anyone elses husband. Moral of the story...there are worse things. They show T&A on cable now, and guys will likely always look, and I think the advice to go with him is brilliant! The ladies, they aren't like they are in the movies...they are normal woman with normal flaws like back acne and stretch marks...seriously....so if you go with him, you can see how "normal" they really are, it might help you to overcome this. Good luck!